Finding Christmas Spirit

A long, long time ago, before electricity was even a thought, communities stuck together through the longest night of the year. Groups of people would walk to the doors of their neighbors and make sure their hearth fires were still burning and if they weren't, they'd use the Yule log to re-light it. They'd sing songs to lighten the hearts and they would bring "extra" food to share with those where less fortunate.

Or at least that's what I've heard from the stories that were passed down through the generations. It makes a lot of sense, you know. Decorating the trees in their yards to provide some brightness during dark days. Sharing gifts to remind people that they mattered.

Doesn't that just sound...right?

Why is it that the tree and all the decorations have to be perfect? Why does the mashed potatoes have to be absolutely perfect with no lumps or else they're "not worth serving"? *chuckles* What is up with all the hassle and stress of being "perfect" when it would be if we all just relaxed and concentrated on what was really important?

So, I'm here to remind you that on Christmas, Hanukkah, Eid ul-Fitr, Kwanzaa or Yule, please remember that if you're with the people you love, or the friends you adore (even if you want to throttle them more than half the time), please remember to relax and enjoy the moment. 

• Let the moment still around you as everyone gathers around your over-cooked turkey and be happy. 
• Make sure that those around you are okay. 
• Take the time to wish bright blessings on a perfect stranger. 
• Help someone out who really needs it. 
• Make sure that your proverbial hearthfire is still burning and that your neighbor's is as well. 
• And stop stressing! Perfection is found in the IMperfection all around you everyday.  

Brightest Blessings, everyone, 

and have a happy New Year.